The Barnette Wedding
WE'RE GETTING MARRIED
We're so excited to celebrate our special day with our families and closest friends. Take a look around to find all the details you'll need for our wedding.
Sat, Nov 01Concord
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Matthew and Destiny first met in 2017 at Central Cabarrus High School in Concord, North Carolina. They were both in marching band, but it wasn’t until Matthew joined winterguard—trying something new outside of band—that their paths really started to cross. What began as a casual friendship soon turned into something more, as they grew closer during practices and late-night hangs with the rest of the guard.
Matthew’s first impression of Destiny was that she was cool, fun to be around, and genuinely kind. Destiny thought Matthew was outgoing, funny, and just as kind. Matthew made the first move, but from the beginning, it all felt easy and natural—like they were always meant to be in each other’s lives.
Their first date was simple and sweet: a laid-back trip to Chick-fil-A at Concord Commons. He got a sandwich, she got nuggets, and they sat and talked like they always did. No awkward moments, just comfort and laughter. That kind of vibe has always defined their relationship.
Destiny realized it was real when she noticed how she could completely be herself around Matthew—no pressure, no pretending. For Matthew, it was just who Destiny was that made it clear—there was no one else he’d rather do life with.
Over time, they built a bond over shared hobbies like winterguard, playing video games, and their mutual love of food. When it came time to propose, Matthew knew he had to make it meaningful. He recreated the night he asked Destiny to be his girlfriend—same van, same food, same spot. After dinner, he told her he had a “gift” for her outside the car. Nervously, she followed him around the van where he gave a short speech before asking her to marry him. She said yes—and they spent the rest of the evening celebrating with their families.
Their relationship is best described as supportive, loving, and loyal—with just the right amount of sarcasm and inside jokes. As Destiny puts it, Matthew’s random glances always make her smile, and as Matthew says, Destiny’s laugh is completely infectious. Together, they’ve grown up, grown closer, and are ready for what’s next—hand in hand, with love, laughter, and lots of snacks.
And if you ask them what sums it all up?
“If you’re a bird, I’m a bird. Let’s fly away together.”
Wedding Details
Below are important details about the wedding including dress code, parking information, and venue policy
Dress code
Formal attire requested. Gentlemen, please wear a suit and tie. Ladies, we ask that you wear a beautiful dress—please, no white.
Parking Information
There will be plenty of parking available at the venue. Upon arrival, please follow the signs and the instructions of our parking attendants to guide you to the nearest available spots.
Venue Policy
As per the venue's policy, no tobacco is allowed on the grounds, including the front porch, back deck, or garage area. If you must indulge, just know that the venue’s eyes are everywhere—so be sneaky! Thanks for helping us keep it smoke-free!
Wedding Registry
We are asking for cash for our registry as that will be the best form for our intended use. Click the button that says send cash below to electronically send money using Cashapp, Venmo, or Zelle. If you do want to get a gift check out amazon list in the link that says amazon below.